Gentleman's Grub Club
NEXT EVENT ON 25TH JUNE 2025
MILTON KEYNES
Welcome to Gentleman's Grub Club, a supper club for men who seek deeper connections and meaningful conversations.This group offers a space to get together with other guys, share some good food, and discuss big topics and men's issues - be it personal growth, societal challenges, or navigating the complexities of being a man in 2025.Our goal is to foster genuine relationships, exchange diverse perspectives, and create a supportive community for men who need a bit more of that in their lives. Join us for thoughtful dialogue, good food, and the chance to connect with other dudes on on a deeper level.The Grub Club will take place somewhere in Milton Keynes. Spaces will be limited so sign up early to avoid missing out.
About
What to expect?
Broadly - Expect to be challenged.The aim is to create a diverse space where people feel comfortable being open and honest, but at the same time expect you to challenge each other respectfully and engage with ideas that you may not always align with.The format will be pretty loose and informal, but there'll be some icebreakers to get to know each other, and a few prompt questions around a bigger theme each time to get us talking. Might even throw in a few moral dilemmas towards the end.Don't sign up if you're not willing to be open, a bit vulnerable in a group setting, genuine in your conversations, and of course respectful to those with different opinions (don't be a dick).A note on safety: This is a group setting with people you may not know well or at all. I cannot promise that things which are triggering or upsetting for you won't be brought up. If something is triggering we will try to support you as best we can.
When and where?
See top of page for the date of the next event. We usually start around 630pm.Somewhere in Milton Keynes. The details will be sent out to attendees on registration.
Cost
I'm trying to keep this event as accessible as possible. It'll be held at a restaurant in Milton Keynes, so your only costs will be the cost of a meal which is payable on the night. Typically this ends up being £30-40 a head depending on where we host.
Why?
We're in the midst of a loneliness epidemic. Especially amongst men. Our in-person social networks are declining as we go ever more online, leading to increased isolation and a reduction in opportunities for real-world interactions.Lots of guys find it really challenging to open up, let alone begin to cultivate emotionally supportive friendships; friendships where they feel comfortable discussing relationships, work, sex, money, and all the rest. Getting beyond pub banter and into the real meaty stuff.I've lived in Milton Keynes my whole life, and have found that we're really lacking in spaces that foster those deeper, more meaningful conversations and friendships, or groups which aren't geared around networking or a specific hobby. It's something I really crave, and whilst there is some great support available to men here in MK (such as the Man Cave), I wanted to create something which is more geared to the social aspect and not focused specifically on mental health. A way to help build connections which are emotionally and intellectually nourishing while also offering a good excuse to get out of the house on a Wednesday night.So I thought, fuck it? Why not host a dinner and bring a bunch of dudes together to chat through some stuff. Food has been a great way to bond since forever, we can have a core theme or issue to chat about each month, and I can try and bring a bit of structure to help guide the conversations. Worst case is that we have a nice meal, best case we come away with new friendships and ideas.
Who is behind this?
I'm Leo. Born and raised in Milton Keynes and still proud to call it my home. Built organisations to tackle complex social challenges around the world for 10+ years until I burnt out. Trade stocks now. Unconventionally Married. Still passionate about social justice. Unashamedly woke.
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